“Hope will never be silent.”
― Harvey Milk
I have been marching in the PRIDE parade for a while now, since the mid or late 90s. I cannot remember the first march but I do recall that it wasn’t that big. Now the Washington DC Capitol PRIDE march is gigantic. I don’t march because I’m Gay, I march because justice matters and human rights matter and sexual orientation should not be condemned any more than left-handed freckled people should be condemned.
I march in PRIDE because the Church has not only been silent through the centuries but it has been complicit in the deaths, torture and slow annihilation of GLBT human beings. I march for the same reason I go to the Holocaust Museum each April and read names during the Days of Remembrance: because Christians have some great atoning work to do for the sins they’ve committed in the name of the Savior.
Over two decades as a pastor, I’ve talked in my office to persons bearing the crushing weight of their family’s hatred; written letters and emails of support to individuals who desperately longed to serve God in a church that would authentically welcome them; I have buried persons abandoned by their families. I prayed at the Capitol with a colleague when Matthew Shepard was murdered… I march because these scars do not go away any more than the scars were erased from the crucified Christ. I march in PRIDE simply to humbly say, “I hear you.” Not, “I know your pain,” because I do not. I can only imagine it. But I hear you and I’m willing to stand by you on a day when you declare to the world that you are not only out but you are, like Walt Whitman, willing to sing a song to yourself, love yourself and celebrate your humanity.
I also march for hope and joy. I fondly remember when a group of us attended a showing of the film, MILK. What an exciting moment to be together! I have performed more “gay marriages” than straight marriages in the last three years. I do not see LGBT persons threatening the institution of marriage but they are saving it by taking monogamous, loyal love seriously. I have blessed children adopted by gay couples. How joyful! On this Saturday, I’ll be marching in another PRIDE parade. I am proud of you, GLBT brothers and sisters. I hope for you, pray for you, advocate for and admire you. I am fortunate to pastor a church that is inclusive. Maybe some Sunday, you’ll walk into a worship service with us. We won’t single you out as LGBT. We will simply embrace you as fully human and like all persons, as someone who bears the Image of God.
For the haters, the Christian homophobic self-righteous and those who insist on demonizing others who are different, I adjure you to repent. Turn around from that hatred. It only leads to hell. To the scholars, the scribes who find a way to leverage the bible against the love of Christ, I adjure you, cease from this inhumane scholarship. These, alas, will pass away. But faith, hope and love will abide. And PRIDE. ~See you Sunday