How does one go about calculating presence? By ‘presence’ I mean the actual appearance of someone into the equation of any group, be it your office, your dinner outing, a family reunion, and yes, a church.
And I’m not talking about—or at least I don’t want to talk about—the drunk uncle at the family reunion. That is a kind of obvious and negative ledger sheet with which we are all familiar. We have all said at some point in our lives (even in elementary school when deciding at which lunch table to sit), “I hope so-and-so doesn’t show up, sit down, come along.”
Let’s focus for the moment, or moments it takes to read this, upon the positive. We have also said things like, “I am so glad s/he was there. What a difference s/he makes.” Someone’s presence livens up a room, fills a room with light, replaces sadness with joy or hands out courage and hope in large bowls. Calculating presence is an inexact art but we all calculate every day how someone’s presence in our lives makes a measurable difference for how we think, feel and act.
This holds true for institutions in our communities as well. I recall not too long ago how a particular club along what is now called “The Wharf” impacted our community in Southwest. Suddenly it seemed we had more trash littering the parking lot of our church and streets, drunks sleeping in cars on the church lot, and assorted other behaviors we need not list here. The neighborhood was revolted by that institution’s careless regard of others. We expect more from one another and we calculate presence by how not only an institution appears on a corner, but how they deepen our humanity and raise our sights by calling us to noble ideas and actions.
This week and week-end, calculate your presence. Consider how you individually bring light and hope into a group; ponder how you raise the sights of others, deepen the humanity of others. The amazing thing about that kind of presence is this—while giving your life away in kindness and service to others you yourself are deepened and ennobled in the process.
Monday of next week, the ANC will address our church’s plans for the future as we attempt to do well by those who preceded us by securing this institution for those who will come after us. The ANC commissioners will be calculating our presence as it were. One would hope such calculation goes beyond capitalist ledger sheets like how many burgers did you sell this week or how many widgets do you have in your widget piggy bank? Instead, if the calculation of presence is predicated upon the deepening of humanity, the luminosity of wisdom and love, then we stand a chance of being understood. Our little church on this corner of Southwest has had a great voice for exactly these kinds of values. We speak up for the inclusion of all, for the dignity and humanity of all, for justice and peace. We cry out for these values but we also take actions to implement those values in our lives.
Were you to stand across the street where the Wharf is currently a kind of desolation row (and it will be exciting to watch as desolation is transformed into a wonderful intersection of human discourse and concourse), and if you looked across the street at our corner, I believe you could see not a building but a light. On any given Sunday this is what we hand out: light and salt, seeds of hope and empowerment that in turn transform our community, our work places and our lives. ~See you Sunday.